Most memorable experience with my family

My family isn't perfect. We don't own a castle or a white horses with a carriage. We don't own large farm fields that I may ran through and pick up farm-raised fruits. We don't have big chandeliers hanging on our ceiling. We don't live in a fairy tail world where the only problem families will have is about crowns, jewelries  and lost princes and princesses. My family  isn't perfect but i'm happy. 

Sometimes the most memorable experiences are those things that you have been longing for or the worst thing you could ever experience. Having a simple dinner with my family is the most memorable. Those simple meals served in front us, with us simply talking about casual things, those are the memories which i cannot forget. We experience a little bit of misunderstanding, we  often say words  that could hurt  each other, those are the moments i won't forget. As i said, memories and experiences, good or bad, may not always be fun but they will always be in my mind. Yes. My family isn't perfect. We have scars and flaws but I don't really  care because they are my family and no matter what they will always  be my family. Love love love!

HOW TO SUSTAIN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS??

I believe in the saying that goes " No man is an island". No one can live alone. Even those people who says that they are all alone in their life, they still have people to mingle with. Relationships can form when you associate with people. They can be your friends, your family, your special someone or can be someone you just met from school or work. But it's not impossible for certain situations to happen that problems may occur in a relationship? So how can we sustain a healthy relationship?

A healthy relationship for me is two people who are giving and taking. It's not always the mother who exerts effort for the family, it's also the children's duty to do something for the family. It's not always your boyfriend who buys you gifts when it is your anniversary, it is also your duty to cater him on that moment. You see, you'll only have a healthy relationship when there is someone who takes the chance and someone who understands it. Let's say for  a couple, when a guy needs to go abroad for his work so that he can sustain his family and preparation for the wedding and he has his special someone to be left in country, of course his girlfriend would be sad because she will not see his boyfriend. But with the girl's deeper understanding with the situation, she would allow his boyfriend to leave even though it will be hard for her not seeing his boyfriend. But of course in order for the girl not to feel alone the guy has to sacrifice some of his time to chat his girlfriend. Understanding is the key for a healthy relationship. You must always understand each other because in the end you'll just realize that if you truly love someone he/she will be worth sacrificing for. 

HOW TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE IN ADOLESCENCE? 

I believe that happiness is choice. It's our choice whether to be happy or not. Happiness can be found everywhere. If you could just see the positive things in life, you can be happy. The question is how to live a happy life in adolescence?

There are many ways to be happy. First is to pray. Praying to our Almighty God may help us overcome our burdens in our hearts. He can always help us.  Next thing to do is to smile. I believe that when you look positive on the outside some things on the inside changes also into positive. So smile. Smile even when  it's hard. Do and surround yourself with the persons/ things you love. You won't be happy if you don't love what you're doing. It's okay to treat yourself by doing the things you love to do. The people you love may give you happiness because at the first place you love them because they make you happy. Surrounding yourself with them may help you feel happy.

 Live the life you have and love the life you live. Happiness is a treasure buried around you. It's up to you to dig and get the happiness you want. :))))  

HOW TO OVERCOME THE CHALLENGES DURING ADOLESCENCE?

 In life there are many challenges that  people may encounter. Some people can handle challenges with ease and confidence while others can't. Maybe those people who have a hard time to overcome and handle the challenges they face lack on motivation, inspiration and maybe they have a hard time to accept the challenges they face. So??? HOW TO OVERCOME THE CHALLENGES DURING ADOLESCENCE??? Let's find out.

Due to  some hormonal imbalances adolescence are experiencing they tend to be more sensitive or not maybe they feel like everything is a big deal. Sometimes they feel that nobody understands them. So first you have to accept that you are facing challenges. You have to be aware that these  challenges really happen on most adolescence. If not then it will be hard for you to overcome them. Accept it. It's already there. Whether you like it or not, you have to overcome with it. Next in the process is that assess the problem. You need to know that what is problem? Where did it come from? How can I solve it? You need to know there is a problem and you have to do something with it or else it may just grow bigger if you'll be passive. Next, look for possible solutions. After assessing the problems, now you have to look for possible solutions. Then lastly apply the solution to the problem.  Don't let the challenges consume you. Consume the challenges and overcome them. 

Journal Entry #1

It's very important to know yourself. Who will if you won't? And why not, right? If you know yourself you'll be able to identify what's your strengths and weaknesses. You'll be able to overcome your problems because you know to yourself that you are good at this or you are bad at this. It will be easy for you to accept the things that may come in your life.

And knowing yourself is essential to know your strengths and weaknesses. If you know yourself right, you may get the correct information as a basis for any problems you have. You may know yourself by getting information from your closest and trusted friends or your family. On my opinion, the people who you are with for so many years may have known you for who you are and the reasons why are you like that specially your family. They have known your actions, you attitude, you perspective and your plans. Those things may have something to tell about you. 

Sometimes you just have to be true to yourself. You just have to follow your heart and your mind. You may gather opinions from your friends and family but what makes you who you are is what will you do or what will your actions will be. And if you know yourself, you'll be able to showcase what you are good at. If you know to yourself that you are good at that it will boost your confidence to do good. And also, if you know that you are not good at something you can do something to improve that. 

It's just a matter of being true to yourself. Live life. Spread the Light! :)